"Because a peaceful family isn't luck, it's built with the right system"
There are some key ingredients, I call them the 9 Essential Sibling Pillars, that when put together create a thriving ecosystem and lead to long term change. Keep reading to see how you can take the worry and frustration out of raising siblings using my system.
Want better relationships
Most parents I work with are craving one main thing: more peace in their home. Whether your kids fight constantly or you just want them to be good friends, you're in the right place.
You feel overwhelmed and unsure
If you are unsure of what to do when your kids bicker, argue, bug, or hit; you are not alone. Maybe nothing is working and you are at a loss about what to do next.
Tired of the fight
Who knew parenting could feel so hard! Are you drowning in the fights, meltdowns, and challenging behaviour? I got you...
Is this you?
Overwhelmed by raising mutiple kids? Tell me if any of this sounds familiar…
Like you, I am raising multiple kids and here is a truth I know too well...
When siblings don't get along, it sucks the joy out of the whole family
I mean, how often do you have a weekend off together and it just feels so hard because all you are doing is managing behaviour?
Or you try to go out for a fun outing and you can’t even enjoy it because the kids won’t stop fighting?
If you’re like most of the clients I work with, you just want to enjoy your time together, not dread it, right?
To help solve the problems
Maybe you are...
Dealing with conflict as it arises
Most parents are simply dealing with sibling issues as they come up, without much of a plan
Focussing on the bad
Most parents spend a lot of their time and energy trying to stop flights, deal with misbehaviour, and unintentionally put the focus on the wrong things.
Using traditional methods
Giving time outs, taking things away as a punishment, or using threats. Those methods aren't working but you don't know what else to do.
Hoping for the best
When parents don't know what to do, often they do nothing and simply hope for the best! Not exactly effective.
To Help Solve the Problems
Maybe you are...
Dealing with conflict as it arises
Most parents are simply dealing with sibling issues as they come up, without much of a plan
Focussing on the Bad
Most parents spend a lot of their time and energy trying to stop flights, deal with misbehaviour, and unintentionally put the focus on the wrong things.
Using Traditional Methods
Giving time outs, taking things away as a punishment, or using threats. Those methods aren't working but you don't know what else to do.
Hoping for the Best
When parents don't know what to do, often they do nothing and simply hope for the best! Not exactly effective.
Honestly, I get it.
No one gave you a recipe for raising multiple kids. It makes sense that you don’t know what to do. Getting your kids to fight less, resolve their own problems and play more is possible. But it isn’t done by separating them, punishing them or just telling them to stop fighting.
None of that works because it's not looking at the whole picture.
It’s like trying to lose 30 pounds by just telling yourself to eat less, getting annoyed at your waistline or going on a fad diet. You aren’t going to see long term change if you don’t have a plan that addresses all angles of the problem.
You need to create a healthy family ecosystem
Creating a healthy family ecosystem is the most effective way to deal with sibling conflict, get your kids to stop fighting and finally have more peace and joy in your home
Luckily, the best systems have ingredients. It’s like following a recipe. Put in the right ingredients and your ecosystem can thrive.
- Imagine knowing exactly what to do when your kids fight
- Having Step by Step instructions
- Feel less irritated by misbehaviour and respond calmly
- Hear your kids resolve their conflicts without you
- Enjoy a family outing again!
- Feel more connected and hopeful about parenting
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What parents like you have said
★★★★★ 5/5
"My husband and I loved this course. We've seen a dramatic change in how we are approaching our children's interactions. Thank you so much"
Naomi
Student
★★★★★ 5/5
"I have reframed how I see their fighting. I am listening for signs of growth and I don't feel as stressed. We are enjoying playing together as a family and I feel relieved that I can enjoy that now"
Bess
Student
★★★★★ 5/5
"I would highly recommend Colleen to not only parents with children with really big emotions, but also to parents who just want to learn a more gentle approach to parenting"
Marissa
Student
With Sibling Solutions,
sibling dynamics become as easy as 1, 2, 3
Make a choice to invest in your family
It all starts with believing you can make a difference and taking ACTION
Follow my Lessons and systems
Follow the simple frameworks in the course (with my help every step of the way)
See a real change in your family
Finally feel like you can handle what comes your way in your family
What's inside
12 Detailed video trainings that guide you through the ingredients needed to create a thriving family so you can stop hoping and finally have a solid plan
9 additional video modules revealing what to say and do for all common sibling concerns: Babies, Competition, Name calling, Sharing, Bugging, Hitting, Roughhousing, Tattling, and Fairness
A growing library of Training Sessions, where Colleen gives even more examples, more insights and new ways to think about the lessons you’re watching
Step-by-Step frameworks for how and when to intervene during arguments, disagreements and episodes of hitting and aggression
Steal my 5 Core Foundational Tools, Conflict Decoder and Connection Builders – concepts and tools that you will use over and over again for building the sibling relationship, preventing disagreements, staying calm during big upsets and growing your relationship with each child
Incredible and easy to follow PDF guides for each and every video module that you can print and use to implement change immediately
Downloadable audio files of every lesson so you can listen while you walk your dog or stir your mac and cheese!
Incredible opportunity for Personal one-to-one coaching sessions at a price you won’t find anywhere else
Sibling Solutions helps you get underneath problems like...
- One child who causes trouble
- Arguing and bugging over every little thing
- Fights over toys or turn taking
- Multiple ages getting along
- Aggression or hitting
- Competition and jealousy
- Soooo much more
By the end of the course, you will have
Confidence
Leave overwhelm behind and parent with complete confidence
Instructions
Get clear Step by Step instructions for how to intervene in every type of conflict
Connection
Finally see the relationship between your kids thrive. Enjoy spending time together as a family again.
Clarity
Get clear on what is driving sibling fights so that you can reduce them, not add to them!
Power
Discover the power you have to influence the sibling relationship. Never feel powerless again.
Support
Forget feeling alone in your parenting. Get a cheerleader and guide in your corner.
But the most surprising outcome might be that you...
Understand your kids better
Learn why your kids act the way they do
Think about behaviour differently
So that you can help the conflict, not increase it
Don't let fights upset you
Stay more calm during conflict and view it as practice
"I am feeling much more hopeful about my kids’ behavior and I am better able to manage my stress during their fights."
Children don't just learn conflict resolution skills on their own...
Think about it! It’s a skill, just like anything else we teach them. You wouldn’t just throw your kids in a swimming pool and say “don’t drown!” But when it comes to getting along, usually all we tell them is “stop fighting”
Need more details? Here's what's waiting for you when you become a member inside Sibling solutions
Click to reveal details about each module inside Sibling Solutions
Stop The Fights!
Lessons on everything but the kitchen sink!
Cause I definitely don’t know squat about fixing kitchen sinks (just a shit ton about siblings)
Get specific on the exact problem you might be facing with your kids!
Whatever the concern, I got you covered!
Aggression
If your kids are hitting, kicking, biting or anything else that is painful, this lesson is for you! Follow the C.R.I.E.S Framework for why your kids are aggressive and the 3 step plan to deal with it. This powerhouse lesson will truly help you know how to respond to aggression.
Sharing
Tired of being the police for who gets to play with a toy, who is snatching a toy, and who is crying about a toy? Learn 4 new sharing rules to make it a whole lot easier.
Babies
Having a new baby, or have one under 1? Learn how to prepare, what to say, how to reduce jealousy and create more time to get stuff done!
Tattling
I love tattling! Ok, you probably don’t and that’s fair. Let me show you what to do and say about tattling and make it your friend too.
Name calling/Teasing
When kids are just saying mean things to each other, it can feel like they’re just trying to pick a fight. Surprising ways to deal with name calling and teasing in this lesson!
Roughhousing
Kids love to roughhouse and then suddenly, someone is crying! Every time! They can’t seem to keep their hands off each other and yet, it always ends badly. Set them up for success in this lesson.
Bugging/Provoking
Do you have a kid (or 2) that seems to love to get their sibling riled up? Figure out why they’re doing that and what you can do.
Competition
Racing up the stairs, and to the car, and every time they possibly can. Getting mad and annoyed when they lose. It’s never ending. What to say and do when kids are constantly competing.
Fairness
“It’s not fair!”, “She got more than me!” If you’re tired of hearing that, this lesson will help you a lot.
Set the Foundation
The Basics
These lessons will get you well on your way to understanding your children and creating a strong foundation for your change
5 Core Foundation Tools
These are 5 tools that you can use immediately and over and over again to chip away at the issues between your kids. The 5 tools will give you practical and actionable things to use at every age.
Conflict Decoder
Ever wonder why your kids are being mean, refusing to share, complaining that everything is unfair or hitting when they’re mad? This lesson answers that question and gives you 11 reasons undeneath behaviour and what to do about it.
Connection Key
Improving your relationship with each child is critical! The relationship you have with each child is what drives the sibling dynamic. Discover how you can gain cooperation without control and the 5 Connection Builders to grow and foster your relationship.
Module 1: The Power of Language
Pillars 1, 2, 3
Change how you think about, and talk about, sibling fights for good.
These 3 pillars dive into your mindset about behaviour and how you speak to yourself, how you speak to your children and how they speak to each other.
Pillar 1 : Inner Voice
Ever catch yourself thinking you just have bad kids? Or you are a bad parent? Ditch the guilt and change how you speak to yourself.
Pillar 2 : Dialogue
Want your kids to apologize and speak kindly to each other? Forget forcing and learn how to teach kids to WANT to be kind.
Pillar 3: Empower
Your words hold tremendous power. With great power comes….well you know the rest. This is what to say and what not to say!
Module 2: The Fighting Frameworks
Pillars 4, 5, 6
Imagine knowing exactly how to respond when your kids fight.
These 3 pillars show you, with detailed instructions how to intervene when your kids fight. Gives you the power to change your interactions for good.
Pillar 4 : Consequences
When “Go to your room!” doesn’t work anymore, you need to try something different. Lose the punishments for good.
Pillar 5 : Neutral
Stop making the fights worse and actually reduce sibling rivalry in a real way, for good this time!
Pillar 6: Mediate
You want step by step instructions on how to deal with fights, right? Get the 3 step manual for exactly what to say and do during conflict.
Module 3: Build the dream TEAM
Pillars 7, 8, 9
Don’t just stop the fights, build your children the relationship you’ve always wanted them to have. Don’t just hope for it, plan for it.
Explore the 3 pillars that will help you build the good between your kids to create a strong and connected relationship.
Pillar 7 : Relationship
Does it seem like your kids are just plain mean to each other? Stop getting annoyed by it and build them a solid friendship.
Pillar 8 : Abundance
Fighting, arguing, jealousy and rivalry have one thing in common: scarcity. Replace those feelings with abundance in 5 easy ways
Pillar 9: Play
Use the magic and power of play to your advantage! Discover how play can get cooperation, ease fighting and help everyone get along.
* Make sure you click to read each module description above
But I know what you might be thinking
That sounds great, but...
I don't have time
Let me ask you...how much time are you wasting dealing with fights already? Put the time in to learn a better way now and believe me, you will get your time BACK because you won't be spending it on the negative parts of parenting.
They get along most of the time
Great! Then these tweaks and steps will only make sure that continues well into their teens and beyond. If you follow the principles in the course, you won't have to hope it will continue, you'll know it!
I have tried scripts before
This course is not like ones you have done before. Yes I tell you things you can say. But this course goes way beyond scripts to get to the core of sibling rivalry to change it for good. You have heard advice before, but you haven't heard it like this.
This isn't going to work for my family
This course is designed to help any family who is willing to get help. If you commit to going through the lessons and actually applying what you learn (with my help!), you WILL see change in your house. I guarantee it. The live Training Sessions and coaching options are perfect to dive into your specific family
Investment Options
Get started for $130! Or Save when you pay in full!
Essentials
All the must-haves!
$
249
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All video modules
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3 Training Sessions
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PDF printables
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Download Audio files to listen on the go
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Lifetime access
VIP
Limited to 10 spots
$
449
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ALL features +
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Punished to Playful
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1:1 Private Coaching (Two 1 hour sessions)
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Private communication directly with Colleen
Limited space
This gives you a 2 for 1 course package!! Punished to Playful is an audio course on setting limits and removing punitive measures
Essentials payment option: two monthly payments of $130. VIP payment options: two monthly payments of $230 or three payments of $155
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When my kids were little, we had so many sibling fights, hitting, yelling and everyone screaming at once. It was SO hard.
I have been where you are and now I have a system, tools and steps that you can follow so you can raise kids who get along.
Sibling Solutions is the information and strategies that I wish someone had handed me the moment I had my 2nd child. Now I want to hand it to you.
Enroll today and get these EXTRA bonus' (FREE with purchase)
Bonus #1
Sibling Relationship Rescue: 5 Day Challenge
Get your kids laughing, playing and building a better bond, so you can stop feeling disconnected and worrying they’ll never get along – all in just 10 minutes a day!
This is 5 days of challenges, quick insights and actionable tools to bring your family closer, even if your kids are fighting non stop!
Get 5 daily videos, guides and fun challenges to bond your kids. Over 125 games, scripts and strategies to build the good in your home.
Valued at $27
Bonus #1
Setting Limits 101 Masterclass
In this Masterclass you will learn how to get your kids to listen and cooperate without threats, yelling or asking a million times.
Knowing how to set limits and boundaries that your kids actually listen to is a bit of an art, one that I have perfected.
In this Masterclass, I hold nothing back, giving you all the tools, strategies and steps so you can stop bad behaviour and set limits like a boss.
* What prevents listening
* Positive tools that work
* My 5 Step method
* New insights
Valued at $47
Bonus #2
Tantrum Survival Guide
This is a parents complete guide to tantrums. In this bonus audio lesson and PDF Guides, you will learn:
* Why tantrums happen
* The steps to handle them
* Prevention methods
* Tantrums in public
* How to stay calm
BIG emotions effect all aspects of your parenting. This course will leave you feeling in control and ready to handle it. The perfect bonus lesson to Sibling Solutions!
Valued at $47
Bonus #3
The Anger Toolkit
Everyone gets angry. It’s what we do with our anger that matters. In this bonus 34 page PDF Guidebook, you and your child will learn:
* What anger is
* What happens to us when we’re angry
* How to recognize anger building using the Anger Dial
* Calming and regulating tools
* How to create a calming space
This printable booklet will guide your child, in a simple way, on managing anger (so that they don’t take it out on you and their siblings!)
Valued at $17
Fast Action Bonus
The Roadmap to Calm
9 Day Stop Yelling Reset: This mini course will walk you through the 9 steps to move from yelling at your kids in anger to being able to stay calm, regardless of your child’s behaviour. This is your step by step guide to understanding your anger and changing your reactions. Learn:
* Why it’s hard to stay calm
* How to catch your anger building
* New ways to think about your child’s behaviour
* Concrete steps to follow
This mini-course is yours free when you register for Sibling Solutions before midnight (EST) on Sept 24, 2025
Valued at $27
AI Bonus
Colleen Chat Bot
Let’s use AI to our advvantage! If you aren’t sure what to do, just ask my bot.
The chat bot will search through all the videos, PDF guides and training sessions and tell you exactly what to do, and where to find that info in the course!
It’s like having me in your back pocket!
Priceless
Let's Recap!
What you get when you invest
A breakdown of everything included in Sibling Solutions
Sibling Solutions Video lessons
Over 20 video lessons to have you handling sibling issues like a pro: 9 Sibling Pillars, Foundation Module, Connection Key, Conflict Decorder, all Common Concerns
$997 value
3 Training Sessions
These live Training sessions (with a replay available) will keep you on track, knowing exactly what to focus on to make a change. Show up live for the opportunity to ask questions
$225 value
Training Sessions
Access a growing library of every training call that Colleen host! Get new insights, examples and know exactly what to focus on to make changes in your home.
$225 value
PDF Support Guides and downloadable audio
Designed for the busy parent, so you can listen on the go and learn through reading beautiful printouts
$45 value
Setting Limits Masterclass
This invaluable class will change how you parent. Let go of the consequences, punishments or asking a million times and learn what really works
$47 value
5 Day Challenge
Watch the short videos, get inspired, and implement small changes that make a BIG difference in your home
$27 value
Tantrum Survival Guide
This is an entire mini-course, yours for free with purchase! Change the way you handle tantrums for good so they don't take over your whole family
$47 value
Anger Toolkit
An incredible resource for helping kids deal with anger and learn self regulation skills, so that angere doesn't explode on everyone around.
$17 value
*Roadmap to Calm
A 9 day stop yelling reset so that you can get a handle on yelling!
*This fast action bonus is included when Sibling Solutions is purchased by Sept 24/2025
$27 value
Colleen Chat Bot
Don't know what to do or where to find something in the course material? Just ask the bot! You will be directed to exactly the time and place in the course that you can get your answer.
Priceless
Lifetime Access
Once you purchae the course, all of the videos, audio, PDF guides and bonus offers are yours forever. AND, any future course updates are yours too!
Priceless
That's over $1400 in value!
Investment Options
Essentials
All the must-haves!
$
249
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All video modules
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3 Training Sessions
-
PDF printables
-
Download Audio files to listen on the go
-
Lifetime access
VIP
Limited to 10 spots
$
449
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ALL features +
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Punished to Playful*
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1:1 Private Coaching (Two 1 hour sessions)
-
Private communication directly with Colleen
Limited space
This gives you a 2 for 1 course package!! Punished to Playful is an audio course on setting limits and removing punitive measures
Here from my students yourself!
You're backed by a risk-free
14 day money back guarantee
After 14 days in Sibling Solutions you will have access to all of the video trainings and 1 Training session. I am confident you will be blown away by the value.
I want this to be a No brainer for you!
But if after 14 days you don’t feel confident that this course is the answer to your sibling problems, simply reach out, show us that you have gone through the 9 Sibling pillars and we will refund your investment.
You've got questions,
I've got answers!
A lot of the videos are 10 minutes or less. The longest lessons are 30 minutes (for Aggression, Babies, Sharing and a few other larger topics). You can binge the 9 Pillars and really get the basics down quickly!
The Sibling Solutions HUB now has Training Sessions (pre-recorded) where I dive into more examples and teach you how to create your healthy ecosystem – one step at a time
You get two 1-hour private coaching session with the VIP package. I will give you my booking link and you can book the sessions according to your availability.
Punished to Playful is an incredible audio course that teaches you how to get kids to listen without asking a million times, yelling or using punishments. When you purchase the VIP option, you now get the Punished to Playful course as a 2 for 1!!
As soon as you click on the purchase link and choose your payment option, you will be prompted to set up your password in the student portal. The student HUB (through Membersip.io) is a beautiful place! The videos are organized wth a PDF guide for each lesson and easily downloadable audio files. You can even search by keyword to find exactly what you’re looking for.
You get lifetime access to the course materials! If you commit to watching the videos, you can easily complete the course and change your family in 3 weeks! The support sessions occur over a 3 week period to help you stay on track.
The VIP option is great if you know you want some individual attention and coaching. The coaching sessions are invaluable to really figure out how this fits for your family. You also have access to the Colleen chat bot inside the Sibling Solutions HUB – ask it questions and you will be directed to your answers, right inside the course
Yes! Make sure you check out the section explaining the lessons in detail. The aggression lesson is one of the best in the course. It will give you an understanding of what is causing the hitting and actionable and easy to understand steps to get your sweet child to learn new skills!
I truly believe that these parenting lessons are even more important and even more beneficial for neurdivergent kids. These are the kids who don’t conform to the traditional parenting methods and they are the ones who push us to change! So YES, this course is absolutely going to work for your special child.
Any age! Your parenting will change and so will behaviour of any age child following these lessons. The younger kids are, the easier they adapt and mold, but it’s never too late to make a difference. If you are interested in the VIP option with personal coaching, I specialize in kids under 12.
Colleen is a positive parenting coach and that is always the lens in which she creates content. The course discusses how to accomplish change in your home without punishments, consequences or control. You simply have to have an open mind about how parenting can be effective without those things.
Essentials
Everything you need!
$
249
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All video modules
-
3 Training Sessions
-
PDF printables
-
Download Audio files to listen on the go
-
Lifetime access
VIP
Limited to 10 spots
$
449
-
ALL features +
-
Punished to Playful*
-
1:1 Private Coaching (Two 1 hour sessions)
-
Private communication directly with Colleen
Limited space
This gives you a 2 for 1 course package!! Punished to Playful is an audio course on setting limits and removing punitive measures
Mistake #1 most parents are making
Truth:
Studies show the opposite is true. When siblings continue to fight and interact negatively towards each other, they learn that bullies usually win. Children don't develop conflict resolution skills on their own.
Siblings need a coach
Here's Mistake #2
They think sibling fights are inevitable and there's nothing they can do
Truth:
There will always be some level of conflict between siblings. It is the nature of growing up. AND, we can give them skills to fight better. We can coach them to listen to each other, compromise and treat each other with respect.
Siblings can get along, and you have the power to help them do it
Mistake #3: time for some tough love...
They make the fighting worse by intervening in the wrong way, increasing sibling rivalry
I say this with love, because I've been there
Most parents are making sibling rivalry worse without even realizing it. The way that we respond during fights (and misbehaviour) can either help reduce the rivalry, or add to it.
Nothing will change if you don't change your approach
Enroll in sibling solutions today
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What clients have to say about support and coaching...
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A note from ...
Colleen
My kids and I were at the playground one day. My two kids were happily playing together as they always do. Another mom said to me “Oh, you’re so lucky your kids get along so well, mine are always fighting”
It made me think 2 things; 1) That’s so sad that her kids are always fighting and 2) It’s not luck lady.
It’s not luck that my kids get along. They are not special unicorn siblings who just agree all day. I worked HARD to figure out how to deal with fights and create kids who love to be together. In fact, I believe what I did instinctually is what will be the secret sauce for you too.
As I became a positive parent coach and started Heartstring Parent Coaching, I talked to more and more parents who struggled with sibling fights. And I realized more and more the pain it causes the whole family.
I created Sibling Solutions to give you:
➤ Easy to follow Step by Step Instructions and support
➤ A sense of relief that there is something you can do.
➤ A home filled with more joy and less stress.
➤ Confidence to parent in a way that feels good.
➤ The ability to actually enjoy family outings and weekends at home together.
It’s possible. Let’s do this!
If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting
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Everything you need
$
249
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All video modules
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3 Training Sessions
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PDF printables
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Download Audio files to listen on the go
-
Lifetime access
VIP
Limited to 10 spots
$
449
-
ALL features +
-
Punished to Playful*
-
1:1 Private Coaching (Two 1 hour sessions)
-
Private communication directly with Colleen
Limited space
This gives you a 2 for 1 course package!! Punished to Playful is an audio course on setting limits and removing punitive measures
Essentials payment option: two monthly payments of $130. VIP payment options: two monthly payments of $230 or three payments of $155